HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

 HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU


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How to make a girl fall in love with you

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Have you ever wondered how some guys easily get girls to fall for them?, and maybe, you thought it was just impossible for you to do the same, because girls hardly notice you, let alone falling head over heels with you. 

Well the thing is, while some guys have it pretty much easy with getting the girl of their dreams, others have mastered the act of wooing and impression.

Trying to impress girls has always been the trend for guys, but the ugly part of the whole thing is that they always tend to do this from various wrong angles. Because they approach girls wrongly, they end up achieving the opposite of their intentions; they either scare girls or make them turn off completely. There are many tips and strategies that are available and deployable to get any girl to melt. She would not even know when and how she ended up finding it difficult to resist you. She would just be all over you and you would simply keep enjoying your life.

Some girls however, want different things in guys. There are few tips that you can use to get a girl to look your direction often and possibly fall in love with you.

In this informative piece, we looked at how to achieve this in four areas with detailed explanations. Enjoy this insightful read.


PHASE 1:LET YOUR PERSONALITY SHINE:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you


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One of the best ways to make a girl fall for you is to impress her with your personality. If you have a great personality it will be very easy for people to associate with you. This endears you to many and girls would definitely notice your uniqueness. To be Frank: Girls look for different qualities in guys more than guys look for in girls. So position yourself to allow your qualities show through naturally and try working on the parts of your personality that are not great to talk about. You can start by doing the following:


Be funny:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you



It is obvious that if you are funny and always able to make people around you smile, you would arrest the attention of many girls. There are those who seem naturally funny and it almost looks like a talent for them because if they just show up, people would start laughing and smiling. They just have the knack for being funny. Now anything can be Learnt. You don't have to be a comedian to be funny. The truth is that, whether you are a comedian or not, you have definitely acted funny in the past, either intensionally or not, that people had to laugh. That right there!, is the sign you need to know that anyone can be funny and comic in their actions and words, all it takes is learning and practice. If you can put a smile on a girl's face or make her laugh, then, you are on your way to winning her attention because nobody wants boring people around. Practice jokes on your friends. Retain those that work and discard the jokes that don't.


Be playful:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you



In addition to being funny and comic, try being playful also as studies have it that girls are more attracted to playful guys than those that are not. If you are wondering what being playful has to do with making a girl fall in love with you, well, the reason is that, it shows youthfulness and the capacity to have fun. No girl wants to associate with a guy that is a bookworm or workaholic and cares less about fun. There are many marriages today that are suffering because the man was deceptively playful and fun to be with during dating but could not keep up with that in marriage. This shows the importance of avoiding pretence in all of this, if you are not naturally the playful type, then learn a bit of it. All you need is a tiny bit of this quality to achieve your desire. You don't have to have an avalanche of it. Moderation is also important. Be moderately playful and don't cross the limits of sanity all in the name of trying to impress a girl or make a girl endeared to you. So find your inner child; that playful part of you that makes you romantically child-like and ignore all the ideas about what you do, think or act, especially when you are with her. Be playful, fun to be with and as saying goes, the rest would history.


Be interesting:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you


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It is not just all about being playful and fun to be with. You need to have an interesting life. And the way to do this is to do cool and interesting things for fun. The things you are passionate about are factored in, even your hobbies. No girl want to sit around and watch you play scramble all day long. Spice up your personal interests and activities so that any girl that comes around you would find you fun to be with. Provided that you are passionate about something,and committed to learning more about it. Girls would definitely find you interesting and attractive.


Be mysterious:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you



Any nice idea is to add a little mystery to your personality. Don't bare all your actions and in tensions. While it is good to give her a clue to who you are and the direction your life is going, it unnecessary to be explicit regarding every little thing you're doing. A little mystery makes her want to connect some dots about you and figure you out. You could hint sometimes, and downplay things instead of being really excited. If you add mystery to your personality, she would definitely want to solve you like we are always trying to solve for x in mathematics.


Be charming:



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How to make a girl fall in love with you



It looks like guys have a switch they flip at will to decide when to be charming and when not to, and it appears they switch to being funny when girls are around but return to their boring self when they are not. This is a very wrong way to get a girl to fall in love with you because they are definitely going to notice the wavy nature of your charm and that might spell trouble for your desire. If you have got the charm, then, try to be consistent and don't change like the weather. Focus on being naturally charming all the time and girls will flock around you. Also, guys will probably want to be friends with you because they would like your personality.


Have great conversations with her:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you

You don't have to talk about movies, musicians or any of that stuff. All you need is an opportunity to chat with her to get to know her better. It is important that you ask the right questions. Try to avoid some unimportant questions like questions about her age are not necessary at first. Some girls don't like it when you start asking them how old they are. Once you have that chance to talk to her, ask her good questions, and listen to what she says.

 You could find out such things as: Where she grew up, her future ambitions, What her family looks like, her parents and what they do for a living, places she has visited and intend to visit. She would value these questions if they are politely presented and she will get the impression that you care about her and have interest in her family and friends..


Find a way to give her compliments:


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Everyone loves nice compliments, but you have to ensure you don't do it too often, so that she does not take it as flattery. If she perceives that you are flattering her, she will not take your compliments serious. So, don't do it all the time, However, try to give her a well thought-out and nice compliment. If you do this correctly, she will always remember you each time she remembers the compliment.


You could even test or flaunt your confidence by making positive remarks about her looks. If you're really confident, say something nice about her; eyes, physique, intelligence quotient, and so on. Girls love to hear nice things about their dressing, beauty and appearance because they are emotional beings, and they love nice words. So here is one of the best tricks you will learn in this article, dish out nice compliments, that's the best way to feed her emotions. This is really an act, and once you master the act of controlling her emotions with your words, her wall of resistance and doubt about you will collapse and she will make you an irresistible companion


If she gives you a nice idea or suggestion, you could say something like; you are really smart; who did you inherit that from?, Tell her how blue her eyes look and how beautiful her hairstyle looks, and most importantly, if she has some beautiful character like; being respectful, let her know that that's one of the things that makes her even more irresistibly beautiful. Compliments that border on her good behaviour and mannerisms will make her see you as a mature and responsible guy that cherishes good values. This will affect the way she sees you and presents herself around you, thereby helping you make lasting impact and impressions that will ultimately sweep her off her feet.



Find out what you're good at:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you

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Girls love it when you are smart. Infact, everyone loves smart people. However, you don't have to beat Einstein to an IQ test to get a girl, just don't display silly attitudes, whether she is around or not. Find out what you're good at and display your competence for her to see.


I will tell you a brief story of two guys who where pianists, but one of them was better on the piano than the other. In one of their rehearsals, a pretty lady who just joined their choir approached both of them to help her play a certain song while she sang. They had noticed her dazzling beauty and had both longed for an opportunity to make an impression, but right there was the chance they had been waiting for, they played in turn while she sang, with each displaying their level of competence, mastery and wizardry on the piano all in the bid to catch her attention.


You know what, the better of the two won her heart. The winner was not even more handsome than the other pianist, but won on the account of expertise. Think of what you are really good at, maybe it's sports,cooking, or maybe it's playing chess, singing or playing an instrument. Be proud of what you're smart about and don't be afraid of showing it and you will definitely sweep her off her feet.


Make friends:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you



You are a social being and you were not wired to live a solitary life. Making friends is a sign that people like you, and that you have something unique to offer. It creates a sense of importance and value about you, and that you have a lot to offer. This does not mean that you should go about making friends with every Tom Dick and Harry. Make friends with reasonable people that reflect your values. Some girls do consider your circle of friends before taking you serious. It is normal if you don't have too many friends and don't want to make more. But if you're the social type that enjoys the company of others, then you know what to do. When she notices the attention you're getting from your friends, she would consider taking a closer look at your admiration


Make friends with cool girls:


Still on the issue of making friends, make sure you consider making friends with some cool headed girls and maintain the relationship on platonic grounds. This will really help you in getting the girl you are interested in to fall in love with you, because your good female friends will say a lot of positive things about you that would trigger her interest. Having nice female friends is a smart move, because you might uncover some information about her — what she loves or likes, what she doesn't like, who she's interested in — that could be helpful in your journey to getting her to fall in love with you.


Finally on this phase, try being the type of guy that everyone wants to be around. Show a welcoming personality. She will feel very comfortable around you knowing that you are cool, nice and an interesting person rather than some boring fellow with no friends or interests in socializing. .


PHASE 2:PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR LOOKS:

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One thing you wouldn't want to joke with is the impression you create via your looks. Ensure you are clean and so well put together in your dressing that even the blind would notice. You don't have to break the bank to look nice, a simple but nice dressing is the point here. Girls, most times, cherish it if a guy looks clean and smells good. Again, wearing a nice perfume is also not expensive. You also do not have to buy expensive brands of perfumes just to get a girl. Just don't put off some putrid smell when someone comes around you. We all know guys, for the most part, don't take care of their looks as much as girls do. A girl can spend an hour painting her face just to ensure she looks attractive, but guys?, they don't care as much. So, listen up, guys: If you want to catch her attention,you're going to have to make it a constant practice to appear nicely dressed and neat. Here are a few things to guide you.


Shower every day:


Always ensure you hop in the shower to take a bath every day. If you take part in physical activities that cause sweating like sports, dancing and so on,then,you definitely have to shower once you return home. You may want to apply shampoo to your hair as often as necessary because your hair adds to your looks when nicely washed. Girls and even all would be more comfortable coming close to you and even hugging you.


Wash your face in the morning and at night:


It is common for  guys to develop   acne or pimples as they get older. This alters the natural beauty of the face, and if not properly treated, could lead to an ugly and rough facial look.. The simplest way to approach treating acne is to wash your face gently, twice a day, and then visit a dermatologist for prescription. The prescribed drugs would certainly include some creams you would have to apply to your face after bathing or washing. Adhere to the dosage and your face would start shining with its natural beauty again. It is only when your face is attractive to behold,that most girls would begin to see the handsomeness of your person.


Wear deodorants:


This does not necessarily imply that you should buy expensive brands. not cologne. What you need  is; a nice, simple deodorant. If  you have the money, then you can buy what befits your class and taste, but you don't have to smell really good; what matters is that you ensure  not to smell bad. 

It also worth noting that deodorants with  strong smell will give off bad smell once they mix with your sweat.


Have good sense of style:


Clothes can be costly, and purchasing them can be a problem for some,  but even if you are not buoyant enough or financially able to spend a few bucks on clothes, you can still look dashing in your outfit, all it takes is to give the simple clothes you have a nice press. Take care to look your best. Style is not defined by how much you have, it is about uniqueness which arises from preference. This is why some of  the richest men on earth still appear in public simply dressed. If you need a name, ask Facebook!


Wear nice clothes:


In addition to having a good sense of style, make sure that you wear nice clothes not just when you are around her, but also when you leave the house. Dressing simple does not mean your clothes should have a bunch of holes in them,dirty, or even look oversized on you, chances are she's going to have a bad first impression of you. If you can't afford new clothes, don't worry: if you have an appealing personality, this step won't really matter except she is  the materialistic type.


Also, if you have the money to buy expensive clothes, you might want to avoid  flashy and fancy brands. There is time and a place for being fancifully dressed,You don't need to put on loud button-up shirts that have many logos on them to impress a girl. Don't try to daze her with your clothes; but rather, do so  with your charm, your humor, and your focused interest in her.



PHASE 3: GET CLOSE TO HER:


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If you want a girl to fall for you, then you need to get close to her. Start a meaningful conversation anytime you are around her. This will help her notice you and learn more about your person. Overtime, something about you will impress her and this may not happen as fast as you want because emotional connection grows gradually, so don't do anything really dramatic like trying to give her the impression that you are being forceful or impatient. It might take a while for her to feel really relaxed, comfortable and secure around you, so you don't have to be hasty, Learn from every moment, and do not be upset by her reactions and early pretence.


Make eye contact with her:


There are some guys that have really developed the habit of not being able to look a girl straight in the eye. This is a sign that you are shy and lacks self confidence. If you find yourself doing this, then you need to start unlearning and reconditioning your brain because most girls will not admire you if they notice this. Maintaining eye contact when talking to her is very necessary and it also makes her feel that you admire her as you claim. Let's say she is in the same class or department, and you find her looking at you, make sure you do not look away first.


Stick up for her:


She could be a girl in your neighborhood. You probably have been trying all your bag of tricks to get her to like you, but nothing was paying off. One way to melt her resistance is to find opportunities to show that you can protect and support her. You don't have to create one, but when you see her in an argument or  some kind of problem, defend and protect her interest. If someone is gossiping her about or saying bad things about her. Don't keep quiet. If you defend her even when she is not present and she gets to hear it, that will gradually endear her to you. If she  knows  that you are willing to show concern, then get ready to celebrate your victory.


Talking to her:

We already talked about having good conversations with her. This is so important that it  still needs to be addressed again, because your innate and beautiful qualities  can only be seen when you are close enough to start a conversation. Let her see how charming you are, how funny you are, how well you listen, how good you look up close, and how warm of a person you are. Let her see all of these but make sure you are not faking it.


Try not to be nervous:


There are people who get nervous when talking to a girl. If you find yourself doing this, then you need to train your mind. One good place to start is to remember that there were probably things that you used to be nervous about, but aren't anymore. So, if you could get over the nervousness attached to those things, then you can talk to her without being nervous. Someone once said, nervousness is the absence of knowledge. What this means is that you need to arm yourself with enough necessary information on various things you want to talked to her about before approaching her. Be organized and show confidence. Have a good self esteem and you will never remember that nervousness ever existed


Do fun things together:


Another easy way to get a girl to fall in love with you is to create lasting impressions whenever you have the opportunity. Try being with her in a fun environment. You can go to the cinema, beach, zoo, and so on. She will not forget such great fun activities, especially when you do fun things that she finds appealing.


You could use the help of her friends to figure out what she might really find appealing. You might be shocked to know that what you consider an interesting or fun activity might be the worst thing to get her involved in. Her definition of excitement might be seeing a scary movie, a boxing match, or an adventurous activity. Doing something that raises your pulse is known to trigger some chemical in the brain that helps people bond together. So try such activities as seeing scary movies, or movies about haunted houses. You can also try  roller coasters. But you need know what she might find appealing as hinted earlier to avoid turning her off. For example, seeing snake movies with her might be a bad one. So if you are thinking of spicing your approach to making her fall in love with you, then you've got one cool idea.


Another important thing to note is that, even though you can fix a date any time to try these things,there are seasons most suitable for merrymaking and fun.  Summer is one of such. Popular fun activities such as:going to the beach, going to the cinema, visiting  amusement parks,going on camping, excursions and hanging out with friends and families are the priorities of many people during summer. You can join the trend by planning one more of the above and invite her


Find out what you both have in common:


One great way to know the things you two have in common is just to ask her questions about  certain things. Find out what she likes, or likes doing. As said earlier, you could use the help of her pals. You could find out that she loves doing the same thing you love doing. If you love playing chess, she might be interested also. If you are lucky to have a coincidence in interest, then you've got yourself a good excuse to be around her as often as necessary.


PHASE 4: ASKING HER OUT ON A DATE:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you



Asking her out on a date is our last step to getting a girl to fall in love with you. You've found out some key things about her and probably done some of the things listed above, like dressing well and being there for  her when she needs it most. The last step is to simply ask her out on a date.


Most guys get it wrong here. They think you have to call it a date. If you do so, you might not succeed. There is no law that mandates you to call it a "date." If you say these traditional lines; "can you go out on a date with me?", trust me, the likelihood for a "no" as a response would be very high. So, don't make that mistake. You could ask her out on a date without letting her know that you are doing so. She might be smart enough to catch you in the act, but then, she would have said yes. One way to use this trick is to tell her that you have two movie tickets and that she should join you to see the movie. This is far more better than saying something like

 "Hey, would you want to go on a movie-date with me this weekend?" If she figures out your strategy,there are two things that are likely to happen; she either gets a little put off and rejects or simply smiles and says "are you asking me out?". Whatever your response is in this case, your most likely answer from her would be a yes. If she agrees, then you have won the jackpot. The strategy here is to present the importance or the fun of the activity first, and then, ask her to join you.

She might reject, but that's not going to be your last attempt, right?, If so, then you can still take another shot at getting a yes. If you get a no for an answer, do not let her see that you are disappointed or angry because that might ruin your chances for a success in future. Despite your emotions, you would want to try to stay strong, even if you're upset, try your best to bottle up  your emotions. You could still remain friends with her and what you would want to do is to let your good qualities keep shinning 


If you succeed, there are few things you should know to avoid ruining your date.


Be yourself:


The first thing is to avoid playing a character you are not, don't try to be someone else when you ask her on the date, or during the date. show confidence and maturity in thinking and actions. These things are necessary because she would be studying you as you are also doing same. Make her feel comfortable around you. 


Respect her:


Make sure your actions, questions, stories show that you respect her. Girls value men who respect them. While it is good to talk, don't be a parrot, show her respect by really listening to her when she talks. Smile and be gentlemanly while chatting. Enjoy every moment because that might be your last date before you join the married


Break the touch barrier:


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How to make a girl fall in love with you

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When you are close to her, gently break the touch barrier by ensuring your hands land on places that are socially appropriate. You would not want to cross the limits or do anything that could be termed as sexual harassment. The best gentlemanly place to start with is her hand and fingers. This will help her bond with you. If she gets used to, and comfortable with your touch, she will become more intimate with you.

Another great place to touch her slightly is on the back of her shoulder, especially when giving her a compliment


Finally, when you are ready to say those magic words, usually at the end of the date, or when you must have broken her defensive wall a bit. You could start by saying something like: "I like you." Pour out your emotions about her. Explain to her how it all started. How you've liked her for a long time, and how she makes you feel.

She might not feel the same for you at first. She might not say anything to reciprocate your admiration towards her, but if you play your cards well, in subsequent days or weeks, your efforts will pay off.

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